Patronize

Verb

Definition: To treat with an apparent kindness that betrays a feeling of superiority.

Synonyms: Condescend, Look down upon, Talk down to

Antonyms: Respect, Honor, Elevate

Examples:

He would often patronize her with his arrogant tone.
She felt offended when he patronized her intelligence.

Mnemonics:

Remember "patronize" sounds like "patron," which refers to someone who financially supports someone else, implying a sense of superiority.
Think of a patronizing attitude as equivalent to looking down on someone.

Etymology:

Origin:

Late Middle English from Old French 'patroniser', from patron 'patron', from Latin 'patronus' (defender), from 'pater' (father).

Historical Usage:

The word originally meant being a regular customer or supporter of a business or establishment, but later evolved to its current meaning of condescending or belittling behavior.

Related Idioms:

Idiom:

"Patronizing tone"

Explanation:

Refers to the tone of speech that conveys a sense of superiority or belittling towards the listener.

Misconceptions:

Misconception:

Confusing "patronize" with its original meaning of supporting or being a regular customer of a business.

Explanation:

The current meaning of "patronize" is focused on the negative aspect of treating someone with superiority, rather than the positive act of support. This can lead to confusion if the original meaning is assumed.